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You will probably think that why I even bothered to google about "how to get rid of an ex-boyfriend" if I am not over it. Well, I'm pretty bored now though and decided to find out what's up with psychopathic ex who just can't move on and face it.

Exactly an hour ago which was 3.20AM (wee morning where most normal human being will be sound asleep) I received several calls and texts from the ex. Just to let you have some idea of what it has been like for me for the ENTIRE YEAR so far. There was even one morning I woke up to continuous calls on my mobile phone and my home phone(I was home alone) and then the ex appeared at my doorsteps shouting and trying to push open the doors when I'm still in bed. I was in total shock. It was so frustrating because I felt like there's nothing I can do like I cannot control the situation or stop him from inviting himself to my house. Now I constantly have this fear of not knowing what would or could happen, what he is capable of whenever I get weird freaky texts.

So, I found this article which is pretty interesting. Here goes:

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Here's how to get rid of your pesky ex.

Scenario # 1 He just won't stop calling your phone. This happens ALOT!

Solution # 1 Get one of your male friends to start answering your phone for you. Do this enough times and most guys will get the hint. Make sure you pick a friend whose voice he won't recognize and make sure he sounds extremely casual and comfortable answering your phone. Tried and failed.

Solution # 2 If you have an extremely jealous ex ( like so many of us do) having a guy answer your phone may backfire on you. So you've got to try a different tactic. If you want to get really creative, crank up some loud music (doesn't matter what time of day) and yell into the phone whenever he calls. He'll think you're having the time of your life without him and will hopefully leave you alone. This doesn't work either.

Solution # 3 This solution is an almost sure fire way to get rid of those annoying phone calls. Just be straightforward. I'm sure you're concerned about hurting his feelings, but there is a way to do this without causing too much harm. It goes like this "I really enjoy our friendship, but I think I need some time to get over you. I'd really appreciate it if you didn't call me for a while." His ego will be boosted by the idea that you're still pining away over him. But he'll also get the picture that it's not okay for him to call anymore. Did this so many times and still....

Scenario # 2 Whenever you open your front door he seems to be standing in front of it Luckily for me most of the time I wasn't home, so I wasn't the one who dealt with the moment, my mum was.

Solution #1 Booby trap your front door a la summer camp style. Buckets of water, paint, or even chocolate will suffice. I'd stay away from the pig's blood though. lol!

Solution #2 Open the door in ratty sweats, hair in a ponytail, and pink goop spread all over your face. When he asks what's wrong say, "Oh nothing, the doctor thinks I'll get rid of this flesh eating bug within the month, if I don't end up in the hospital first. I'm pretty sure its not contagious." hahah, seriously?!

Solution # 3 Tell him, " I know that you're used to showing up over here whenever you feel like it, but now that we're no longer together I don't think its such a good idea. Please don't come over here anymore, I need for you to respect my privacy." TRIED and FAILED

The true key to getting rid of your clueless boyfriend is to be assertive and honest. Seriously, remember you can not sound as if you might be willing to let him back in. If he feels that he has even an inkling of a chance he will not give up. If all else fails, put a block on your phone and get a restraining order. Or better yet, let your big cousin Vinnie talk to him. Yes, I'm serious. If a guy can't take it when you tell him openly not to call or show up at your house then he has a problem that he (not you) needs to solve. You can do it. I promise. Get rid of the ex of your nightmares so you can move on to the man of your dreams.
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(taken from here)

Woah. Seems like there is some sort of pattern for 'the pesky ex'.

Creepy ...

Alright, I paused my movie and I getting back to it.

Peace.

/4:22 AM

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woots~

went t service my laptop at some ulu place which took me 1.5hrs t reach and I was done in just 30mins with nothing done to my laptop! ):
apparently I have a faulty lcd screen which flickers as and when it likes and they have no parts for it currently and I have to WAIT for their call in about 3 weeks' time which I highly doubt that they'll have it by then. I hate t wait for such things~ can't they just get it over and done with. Now I have t wait for another trip down some time again. Sucks.

bus-ed down to clarke quay for a but of shopping, dinner and manicure with Jamie. Now I have shiny blue nails! In two slightly different tones for my fingers and toes.

Life is quite un-exciting lately BUT it's drama-free so I'm kinda loving it for now.
driving tmr morning; going t Play at night.
prolly squeeze in some exercising in between t tone and train up! about 30 days t race day now...

/1:42 AM

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赤い糸　主題歌 ~

I like it (:

/4:17 AM

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when can blogger post page become normal. it looks weird.

Few days ago I was at Dempsey after my short meet up with Jamie for our hairstyling at fareast. Y S E arrived soon after and it's been a while since I last saw them so kinda felt like a short catching up on old/current times.

Well, so about dempsey. Jess, Lj and I was at LaFondue for the very first time. We had the "Fondue Feast" set which is a 4 course meal comprising of salad as apetiser, cheese fondue for starter, a selection of meat and cooking methods for main and chocolate fondue for desserts. Choosing Swiss Cheese was a bit of a mistake cuz there were cinnamon powder in it and the cinnamon kinda spoils the fragrance of the cheese): . However, the main and the dessert made up for everything. We choose to grill the meat ourselves and despite all of us having near-zero cooking skills it ended up to be pretty savoury. Juicy(: and we all wished that the portion could be larger. The looks of the ingredients can be deceiving and they turned out to be more than what we had expected. For our final course we chose the 'Whiskey Chocolate' (dark chocolate, whiskey, cream and strawberry). So good that it is a killjoy such that we don't feel like having choc fondue elsewhere and we couldn't bare leaving a pot of boiling chocolate after we're done with our dips.
-Dips consisted of fruits, marshmellows, ice cream and brownie cubes.
Now, I must elaborate on the ice cream and the brownie a bit. The vanilla ice cream is actually made from kahlua, hazelnut ice-cream and vanilla ice cream while the brownie is a
homemade brownie infused with kahlua.

The setting of the restaurant is so cosy and we felt so at home. It's like a little Swiss home. I think they might as well change the name of the place to ma maison(my home in french) instead.

(review)

midnight movie of the day.

Time Traveller's Wife.

photos are with jess will put them up soon! (: yums.

/12:55 PM

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Just came home from a movie date: The Ugly Truth.

very predictable storyline, kinda expected and lost interest half way through. average i'd say..

yawns ~

btw, this week's class

love the choreo (: eve's class is great!

/7:40 AM

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1) woke up just in time for cell grp in the evening just now.
2) caught up with yyvon last min for a couple of drinks.
3) widely awake now in my sancturary cuz i slept too much the previous night.
4) and i lost track of time totally cuz it's supposedly sunday morning now.
5) it's 3.38am.

p/s: girl, I really hope that you get into MJ Hip Hop dance club cuz I want to get in equally badly if I were to be in NTU now. cross fingers for your audition results!

/3:37 AM

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Queensway Ikea meatballs with jess tday. And yes, we are having our fantasy for the interior design of our future apartment. shopping @ queensway shopping centre but time was short cuz we both had t work @ 6pm.
So, didn't really go on a spree. This reminds me of the idea for another day trip that we had briefly mentioned but not yet executed.

Alright, I shall go draft out the route.

/3:10 AM

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feature: Andrew Baterina from SoReal Cru.

youtube channel: sorealcruTV

I love Brian Puspos' expression:

p/s: I'm really really bored.

/1:01 AM

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Ryanimay (:

what else what else, I wanna see u do flips !

woohoo! love u.

me! gosh, sounds like a high schl crush.
I like his hair though.

/12:06 AM

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Monday:
Far East Movement - Fetish

/5:22 PM

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wanted to go for a tan @sentosa tday but it was raining the whole day.
ended up watching The Last House On The Left @vivocity with WC.

totally a bad choice cuz it was horribily painful to watch and gory. (rated M18)

anyway, left for driving after the show and making progress though still a bit nervous when on the roads cuz it's just my 2nd lesson.

I wanna dance dance dance!

woots, thurs to sat is filled with activities and I'm looking forward to them!

/8:37 PM

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